In my last blog and episode of The Sovereign Soul Podcast, I scratched at the surface of worth and value—how deeply connected they are to the way we live financially, how we see money, and how we judge ourselves in this world.
But what I didn’t dig into was how easily our worth and value get diminished in a material world. A world where your financial stability, portfolio, or security becomes the measuring stick for who you are. And that’s crazy.
We are being raised by people who often don’t know their own value, who then can’t instil it in their children. Those kids are sent into schools that don’t see their uniqueness but force them into a one-size-fits-all box. If you don’t learn, succeed, or thrive in the system’s approved way—you’re made to feel like shit. That’s just how the school system works. It only rewards the few at the top, while the rest are left questioning their intelligence, their popularity, or their athletic ability.
So from the beginning, our sense of value gets shaped around external rewards. And if you don’t fit the mold, you start life already on the back foot.
Then adulthood arrives. Suddenly you’re expected to pay for your own life, put a roof over your head, and step into society’s definition of “success.” Success becomes a comparison game: the size of your income, your possessions, your ability to “make it.” And if you don’t, you’re seen as a failure—not just by others, but by yourself.
This isn’t an accident. It’s by design. The rich get richer, the poor stay poor, and the cycle continues. If you never learn to see yourself differently—if you never understand your real worth—you spend your life chasing standards you were never meant to reach.
And people die that way.
They die feeling like failures.
They die without living their dreams, without experiencing the things that lit them up inside.
That, to me, is a wasted life.
And yet… we all have value. We all have skills, gifts, and offerings. The problem is that most of us don’t connect to them, or we measure them against society’s yardstick and think they don’t count. Our vibration—our deep core belief about being “not enough”—keeps us locked out of our own freedom.
That’s the real trap. A planet of people vibrating at “worthless” will keep perpetuating the same broken systems.
I sometimes wonder if maybe I’m going through the struggles I face—especially financially—so that if I ever break through, I can share the steps with others. Maybe my shitty experiences aren’t pointless if they give someone else a glimpse of hope. That doesn’t mean I believe suffering is necessary for growth—I don’t. But if I can use what I’ve been through to help even one person shift, then at least there’s some meaning in it.
Because here’s the truth: the tools to truly succeed—inner worth, self-awareness, emotional sovereignty—were never handed to us. They were kept from us.
But when you see that, you can change it. You can stop fighting your feelings, stop abandoning yourself, and start doing the real inner work. That’s where the value is. That’s where freedom starts.
The world may be set up to make you feel worthless.
But with awareness, you can flip that script.
And once you reclaim your worth, no system can take it away again.
To dive deeper you can listen to the full episode of The Sovereign Soul Podcast here.
Love,
Rose
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